To a Girl - Do Not Say It Guys...

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Don’t Say It! - Guys

Don’t Say It! Top Ten Lines a Woman Should Never Hear from You

I remember this one episode in the ABC series “Lost”. Sawyer, the character played by
Josh Holloway was teaching Jin (played by Jin-Soo Kwon) English because he’s Korean
and he does not speak the language.

Sawyer taught Jin the words “You’re right. I’m Sorry.” And something like “Those jeans
don’t make you look fat”. Josh’ character said that these are the only two English phrases
that he needs to learn to get to a woman’s good graces.

The truth is that in the ever-complicated world of the man-woman relationship, there are
a few ‘unwritten’ rules which need to be followed. Men should learn that when they say
the absolute wrong thing, they may just find themselves sleeping on the couch.

Here’s a list of the top ten lines that a man should never say to a woman:

10. “What did you do to your hair?”
This is a statement which just goes to show how clueless some men are sometimes. Even
if a new hairstyle or haircut does not particularly flatter us, we just want you to notice
that we’ve gone to a lot of trouble for that new hairstyle. A stylist did it, it was expensive,
and we felt great leaving the salon. Just tell us that you like our new haircut. End of story.

9. “They both look the same to me.”
Okay, it is a fact that women are more obsessive than men when it comes to picking
outfits, or silverware, or moving a piece of furniture from one side of the living room to
another. You probably couldn’t care less - but we want you to have at least an input about
what you think so that you would’ve contributed something.
Ecru and beige may look the same - but they’re not! Tell us what you think, and pick one.
Even if we end up not following your advice anyway.

8. “Do you really need another pair of shoes?” (Callie)
The same thing applies to bags - or clothes. It may seem like an obsession, but women
need to look good and keep up with the latest trends. So just go with the flow even if you
don’t understand the logic behind it - and never tell us that we don’t need a new pair of
shoes.

7. “Is it the time of the month?”
Emotional outbursts or not, it’s just plain rude for guys to immediately assume that just
because a woman is acting a certain way - that it’s the time of the month. PMS leads us to
ache in certain places that men may not know about, or have food cravings - but it’s not
always the reason behind how we act.

6. “Do you really think you should be eating that?”
If you don’t want to get the “I can’t believe you just said that” stare, this is something
that you should never say even when she’s gobbling up that pastry that she said she’ll
never eat again.

5. “You’re acting just like….”
Telling us that we’re acting just like our mom, your mom or worse - your ex-girlfriend is
definitely a No-No. Do you want us to think that we remind you of your ex, which you
shouldn’t even mention in the first place? And telling us that we’re acting like your mom
or our mom? That’s just wrong.

4. “You didn’t tell me that you have a cute/hot girlfriend.”
No matter how secure you think women are about themselves, it’s always shaken up by
the time that you notice or mention in passing - even jokingly - how hot you think one of
our friends are. We wouldn’t trust you to be around them, either.

3. “It’s up to you.”
Even when it seems to be a pretty insignificant matter -we want you involved in the
decision making process. Telling us that it’s up to us just sends a message that you don’t
care.

2. “I love you.”
These three big words should not be uttered during a fight - even if you look at the magic
words as a last resort to end the discussion immediately and proceed to the make-up sex.

1. “Relax!”
Even when you can clearly see that we’re freaking out about something, telling us to
relax means that you think we’re being crazy and unreasonable. Even if we are -the word
“Relax” will just further stoke the fire of our anger and -you see where I’m going with
this? =)

If you want to keep your head on your shoulders and out of the water - learning about
these 10 lines that you should never say to your wife or girlfriend will help tilt the odds in
your favor.
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Bitches be crazy,

From The Heartbreak Kid

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AlyssaJay wrote:

Bitches be crazy,

From The Heartbreak Kid

Agreed!

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I mean...it's bad to say it Shocked

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OMG! OMG!... I just can't believe there is a guy out there that would do/say
this though....

You’re the 100th woman I slept with, and I just won the bet (and starts calling his friend for the money). Evil or Very Mad

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What if you ask them if aunt flow was here? or the curse? would they get mad? cause I just straight out say are you on your period! the only reason woman are offended by men commenting on their period is because they are ashamed of their body and femininity!

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lol loves it

i have no problem with it being figured out, it's a mini party in my house when it hits with the amount of chocolate cakes i can bake in a day lol.

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a girls best friend, chocolate cake!